Mistakes Made Can Catapult The Future

We fall, and not rising is the definition of a total failure ever. A mistake is never a mistake when you study the facts and see the future for better moves and corrections. Going very far in life, passing through so many things, a driving passion for a true goal, climbing ladders, through rough edges, falling and rising up, don't ever give up! It's just a little further.

Marriages fail because they lack the ability to grow pass the situation and matters causing conflicts and disagreements in a home. Two need to put their heads together and talk about growth, you help me, teach me, show me, tell me my wrongs and direct me all times, As I do the same. Most couples hardly talk, both off to work very early and then late night meals, and nature calls, same routine goes on. The romance and feelings get lost in the lonely and quiet home that soon turns into a house, and then a structure.

The sound of ignorance, the arrogant mind, refusing to understand and accept the obvious truth lying around the corner. A very big mistake it is, when a man thinks he knows it all. You refused to accept support from anyone, even those willing to help, without stress, and you are still pushing hard with no break through. If the person God sent to you is among them, you just rejected your helper. Truth is, don't chase out everyone because of the mistakes once made in the past, a few are always true and real till the end.

Stay and live as one willing to learn, reading to gain, ready to accept, seeing to understand and knowing that through dedication and humility, you can cross that very line that you always fell from, pass over stagnation that caused depression. Faith in God is a general key to keep you strong in other to carry out any work line, also you have to study the Word of God daily. Many great men and women today are wealthy, not because the can or could, but because they refused to let their mistakes a mistake.

We all make and made mistakes, but when you analyse the situation carefully, you picture a you more trained and equipped for the future. I encourage you all to put God first, and stay sincere, also avoid lies ( Don't play smart, thinking you are fooling others alone! The greatest fool is yourself). Learn from your mistakes and move on, learn from others (experience) and do better. Believe you can do what God says you can and your driving force will be great.

ABOUT GRACE

Talking Grace

Takes one through supernatural and physical moments. Worthy to have when sincere and true in heart. We are nothing without Grace. God is the Author and Finisher of our faith, He alone can give Grace that shines on us as Glory is. Through Grace the heart and mind can function right. Putting together many things, thoughts, ideas, and creative works through the divine Grace of God, leads to great success and uplifting in this race.

Being a fool is worth it only if you are a fool for the True love of God, only through Grace can this be possible. When all hope is lost and nothing seems right or connecting, just with a pure heart, pray and talk to the Heavenly Father, to ease your heart and send His Grace to work for your every endeavour.

Many may laugh, mock you, fight you, insult you, call you names but can't kill your spirit because through proper dedication and commitment your life is kept in God's hands. Grace will keep you, sustain you and lift you out of every circumstance, problems or situations.

I am a product of God's Grace, my past life can be described; through hurts, through shame, through fights, through poverty, through neglect, through insults, through sorrows, through sins, through stagnation, so much occurred and yet I survived it all and I was saved. He says am Different, and without doubt I am. All those years I was blinded by sadness and many mind disturbing thoughts. He cleansed me and now I feel great, no more silly regrets, sorrows or things of the past, all because of Grace.

Life is a teacher and experience is a concerned friend to all that needs it. Many call it Luck, "Oh how lucky I was!" I call it Grace. Different thoughts and opinions, beliefs and norms but the heart knows what's right. Many might disagree with these words cause of their own view towards Grace. It's right to think about it and have a shared point. A careful look at it and through proper study of the Word of God, you get to understand and realise the wonderful work of Grace.

PURSUE TRUE LOVE

• Pursue true love.

• Sex is not love.

• No one understands love better than God.

• God is love and the definition of love itself.

• God wants us to mature in love i.e True love.

"True love has nothing to do with mere feelings, it is permitted with actions."

CHARACTERISTICS OF TRUE LOVE

• It has it's foundation on God.

• True love is self initiating, takes action without being asked, without consent. 

• It looks for ways to offer service without being asked.

• True love is courtesy filled.

• True love takes responsibility. (Work smart and provide for your partner. 

• True love passes through the door. (Joke :: not through the window)

• True love rejects sex before marriage. It reserves sex for marriage.

• True love cares more for others.

• True love bears up under any circumstance or variety or characteristic or state of being.

• True can handle pressure.

• True love believes and looks for the best in the other person.

• True love trust God always.

• True love is not selfish. (Sacrifice for the one you love)

Question» » When next you hear or say the word, "I love You". Find out what it means.

• True love does not seek perfection.

• True love is not intimidated by wealth or state of financial acquisition.

Question»» 

Ladies "Can you marry a guy and make him a man? From nothing to something."
Men "Can you marry an independent lady and not reduce her worth but increase her?"

• True love keeps moving to the end.

• True love over looks Offence.

• True love is not Touchy.

• True love is not Proud.

• True love is not Arrogant.

• True love is not Rude.

• True love never Dies.

• True love never Judges.

• True love is kind.

• True love carries strong affections.

• True love is real and felt at every point and stage in life.

• True love is only given by God.

• True love is Gods gift to all.

• True love never suffers the other.

• True love sees beneath your beauty/handsome.

• True love brings comforts.

• True love is beautiful.

• True love is Peaceful.

• True love is Loving.

• True love is Pure.

• True love is like a Sacred heart.

TRY (Just a little more)

In this life there are only a few moments which can lead to a break through. You have worked so hard, added much effort, and yet it seems like nothing is working. don't give up! still try.

"When you have done your best and all you can, and there is nothing else you can do! try again one more time".

You never know if that little effort you are suppose to give in becomes your turning point. When you give up! you make it easy and someone else will take the credit, where they didn't labour much for.

Here's a story of a miner, a man with determination, but little faith and no diligence to carry on with.
Matthew Smith, was a gold seeker, exploring different landscapes in search of pure gold. He made good research findings on various promising lands and he found a few he could work on. He was confident and loved his work but he was not really committed to it. He felt his own way was most efficient and would profit him. He got the spot and started digging, deeper and deeper every day. The more he dug, the more he felt sad and his mind was filled with doubts. some friends told him plainly to give up and focus on other things, some laughed at him, some called him a disappointment. All these words got to him, he dug to a very great depth and almost struck it the last time but instead he gave up. he went home and decided not to try anything else for the mean time.

Another local gold seeker by name Robert Taye, had faith in God, and through diligence believed he could try no matter the cheap talks or challenges faced with. even if there was a little chance of succeeding. He also made good findings on lands where he could dig up gold. he came across the beautiful work Smith had left and abandoned, so he climbed down seeing so much effort that the previous digger had done left. He brought out his tool and committed the work to God, and hope to work with giving up. as he struck the ground once, he found so much gold that changed his life and status in the state.

When Smith was reading the daily papers, he came across the page about a local gold miner that struck gold with much effort. He saw the picture and it was the exact spot he dug. He fell to his knees and cried out, "if only i tried a little bit". What a missed opportunity if only he had tried a little more.
The essence of trying is to take off doubts from your mind, cheap talks around you. You are a special being with so much to achieve if only you can try. There are so  many creative ideas out there, many line of works, don't feel down and say you can't make it! just try.

"The first step to greatness is kicking off doubts and believing in yourself"

It is a thing of joy to work with fun and work with certain individuals that motivates you and are always eager to do more with laxity. be very careful not to associate yourself with talk-actives, liars, or people whose only aim is to gain from you and not help or add to you. Be sincere in your line of work and discover how well your business will grow more than others doing the same craft or line of business.
Through good dedication and total commitment to your vision and goal, you can be a boss and an achiever if you try well and work smart instead of hard work all the time.

• Try to be smart in all you do.

• Try to do more with good efforts.

• Try to be sincere.

• Try to be  creative.

• Try to be friendly and accommodating.

Try and add God to your every day with great commitment and experience great blessings.

Try a little more.

"When you try; you discover that your start was tough or rough, but your latter became beautiful and great."

"You can only reach your goals if you don't give up!"
"TRY A LITTLE MORE".

THE MIND

A very tricky palace, or place where ideas and thoughts flow, where silent words are heard and been feed to the brain, reaching the inner man. It is a really busy office where different options and opinions are aired. Eating of the words that creates a lasting peace for the mindset makes a happy Mind.

A FEW THINGS TO NOTE

• Things that are unseen are real as things that are seen.

• Create a special reasoning in your mind. Also good reasoning helps one to grow in life.

• Food for the mind is the Word of God, which is well cooked with the Holy Spirit, a very rare recipe.

• Equip the mind with opportunities, ideas that are creative.

• Aimless living is wasted living.

• Don't take things too easy or lightly else you miss out on good benefits.

• Reckless living leads to useless living.

• Being spiritually minded means to mind the spirit with your mind.

• Use your mind for life's calculations.

• By mental engagement, you can determine future gains.

• Creative imagination is a transaction for the currency of the future.

• You need your mind to navigate to the future.

• Use your mind to think like a great person before you can attain great and greater heights.

• Equip your mind always for tasks ahead.

• Teach your mind a good taste of style.

Examples;
1• If you want to marry a Gentleman, dress like a Lady. And vice versa.

2• If you want to marry a King, dress like a Queen. (word for the wise)

• Learn to think on your feet and be smart.

• Put your mind to your work.

• Working smart is much better than working hard.

• Let your mind be focused on your work.

• The mind is always hungry, feed it with great words and great thoughts.

• The mind needs wisdom and not folly.

• Never think your mistake was a mistake, else you will be tied to a spot.

• Know the difference between Usefulness and beauty.

• Your mind is your mental power house.

"If you can see it or think it! Then equip your mind to do it!" 

MARRIAGE LESSONS 001

Marriage is a union of a man as [husband] and a woman as [wife] to form a family. But there are certain factors that can hinder love, care, and happiness in a home. A careful look at these factors and how to avoid and stop such acts. Talking on a few factors that will enlighten couples and lovers in a relationship to wise up and stop these characters, behaviours and actions before it's too late.

FACTORS THAT AFFECT MARRIAGES

1• LIES - This is the most common of all factors, which comes in little or big packs. Lies blocks the truth and opens more door ways for more lies to flow in. To tell a lie is like doing drugs, where you take a little sip or sniff, ah it feels good right! Then you want and crave for more and more, till you can't control it anymore. You become a junkie of lie. When couples lie to each other, they grow further apart spiritually and physically.

They may feel well, it's just a little lie, won't do any harm. But unknown to them that a very big line has been drawn in between them which if not treated will be the cause of their divorce or separation in a case of courtship or relationship. 75-80% of couples or lovers lie to each other, having a silly excuse to do what your spouse doesn't like. Why most couples lie, is due to the lack of understanding and trust.

" A relationship where lie is the main course! Most definitely, they are living a lie."

A FEW WAYS TO AVOID LIES

• Always tell the truth, even if its hard to.

• Learn to earn ones trust by building together every aspect of your marriage. 

• Have a talk often as you can with your spouse, communication is key.

• Understanding should be a key for a couple, through careful observations and tolerance.

• Both couples should work on their likes and dislikes to avoid lies about how the really feel about it.

2• BAD HABITS - This factor is also a major cause of several family break ups. Bad habits; exhibiting certain characters that are harmful to your relationship. A few of these are Clubbing, Drinking excess, Womanising and others. Clubbing is a part of most youths and men presently. Hanging out with friends and meeting new people, getting introduced to new things and acts that will lead to spoiling the beautiful and peaceful home you have. If a spouse really loves and care for the other, one would stop the habit or if willing once a while, go there together so both can control their actions. Excessive drinking leads to assault, insults and total misbehaviour. 

If a family man gets drunk, he is a bad example to his children also any woman who drinks too much. Most at times they may abuse their kids(incest). Not knowing of the damage they have caused, this can lead to a psychological breakdown and problems in the affected child's life. Also the drunk dad might beat his wife and hurt her in severe ways, leading to jail and a total broken home. Men mostly should stop drinking and concentrate on spending more time with their family, stop that bottle of beer now and avoid been an abusive father. Choose your friends, avoid negative attitudes and influence.

A womaniser is known for his lust desires in ladies, also as a mini playboy. Where married men cheat on their wives with other younger females outside and feel it's a normal thing mostly because they got introduced to it or their friends do the same. 

"The fall of a great man is due to his selfish and greedy findings in lust for wrongful desires."

The essence of marriage is to marry someone you love, someone beautiful in your eyes. Whatever you see outside that attracts you, why not get it for your wife see if you won't adore her the more. 

"A womaniser is a prey to adultery and sin. Stop it!" 

Women and ladies should be principled and respect their men, do what is right and he will treat you like a queen. Don't pay attention to what your silly friends do in form of fun. Your fun should be with your husband and home.

To be continued...

THE FOLLY OF MAN

Man, the path he thinks is ok, actually leads to failure and shame. Man, a beautiful creature, made in the image and likeness of God. Man came and had everything he ever needed including the free will to decide and to ask of the Father. Man fell through sin, and instead of seeking forgiveness from God, man complains about the gift of companionship that fell to the paws of the creeping snake. Man lost the greatest and strongest anointing of all, which was "Glory" that covered the entire definition of well being. Man became a hustler, working hard jobs before he could eat or feed his family. Man suffered a great deal. Man had sons, and through one of his sons death came in. Man brought death into the world by greed, complains, jealousy and hate. Man through sin brought many afflictions, sufferings, tears, sorrows and pains to this world.

Man decided to worship whatever pleases his heart. Man became a servant to sin, and influenced by one who came to steal, kill and destroy, these are they only plans the devil can ever create or picture in his time of reign. Man suffered a great deal from God's wrath but was saved through the holy Lamb Jesus, who came and became poor that man might be rich and took flesh stained by sin but never sinned, He washed it with His blood and became the doorway for man to be able to communicate with the Father again. Man still hardened his heart towards the Saviour of the world by persecuting and turning deaf to the Words which brings life and eternal happiness.

Man foolishly lives, forgetting that the world is filled with physical and spiritual realms. Man yet a fool in his continued actions and a sinner but still loved by His Creator. Man! When will you grow out of your little shell and see all that you can be. Man, lust in desires, always craving for more and not thanking for what he has. Man! O Man! How down and low spirited you can be with little faith. Man always falling prey to temptation, when will you ever win and say no to the claws of sin? Man so intelligent but filled with ego, and pride. Man, how long will you go after sweet desires instead of balancing yourself. Man, take a look at yourself and correct your ways. Man, could be great if he can humble himself and ask for forgiveness and mercy by saying with an open heart "I am sorry Lord, I accept you as Lord and Saviour of my life!" And turning away from the things of the world he was fond of. Man, how folly his acts are before the Most High God, but still loved and cared for until repentance.

to be Continued...