TREAT HER LIKE A QUEEN

She's your better-half, your only source of joy to a happy and successful home. She's a virtuous  woman when you accept her, respect her, love her, be a friend, a husband, a play mate, a support and a talk mate.

Single life was fun, lonely, silly and playful, but she was and is the one whom your heart settled for. Why not be the voice she hears after a stressful day's work, telling her to rest while you fetch her a cold drink for her to take and ask how her day was. Be the voice she hears when she's up in the morning, saying " honey comb, your eyes really got me smiling, your so beautiful just the way you are". Be the voice she hears at night, saying "sleep well love, am right beside you, always will be, also to give you warmth and lovely cuddles.

Be the one she can laugh and cry with not someone who will take advantage of her weakness. Always appreciate her efforts, when she's tired assist her, make her relax "treat her like a Queen". Always have a "Us Day", a day for just the both of you, alone together stress free, doing and having the best, creative and wonderful time. You could be her chef, her waiter, her stylist, her fashion designer, her silly doctor, and a lot more using what can make her happy. Just make sure she knows that you care about the things she likes too.

Sends her gifts and messages, of how you miss her, love and adore her as a precious blessing to your home. So many medium to do so with all these vast technology in the world today. Flirt with her yeah! Never stop doing so, this is very important because you make her feel young and attractive again. Bringing those flames as of when you just met her with all eagerness to make her happy and want you the more.

No matter how busy you are, always find and create time to check on her. Meet her and make her feel like a woman, shower her with all that will brighten her day. And trust when I say, she will never ever cheat or believe a word her friends tell her to make her weak and lust for outward desires and attractions. 

Build your home with love, care, affections and happiness, let it be know that a family walking in the footsteps of God, will always prosper and always have joy and all they could ever imagine.

"Wives and ladies also do the same treatment!"

COUNSELLOR | MATTERS

THE COUNSELLOR

In the beginning was the Word, and the Word was with God, and the Word was God. John 1:1

Life has so much to give, through friendship, relationships and marriages. Life could be smooth, rough, sweet, sour, cold or mixed up in feelings words can't really explain.

Model Prayer before anything else;
Our Father in heaven, hallowed br your name.
Your kingdom come, Your will be done,
On earth as it is in heaven.
Give us this day our daily bread
And forgive our debts, as we forgive our debtors.
And do not lead us into temptation,
But deliver us from the evil one.
For yours is the kingdom and the power
And Glory, forever Amen. (Matthew 6v9-13)

The Counsellor starts today as a friend, a listener, a guide, and a stand against doubts to help save marriages, homes, relationships, train youths, and strengthen connections between two or more groups.
"The Mind is a tricky palace, be careful what you feed it"
The goal of every union or relationship is to live with Joy and happiness. But without understanding it fails due to both sides having "trust issues", doubts and every creeping thoughts or words by persons around them.
One should learn to make friends with these categories; a wise person, a funny person and a lovely person. Reason been that, when you need support and advice you know who to run to and often times get the best advice from one least expected. Creating a better feeling after a good conversation.

I'll be addressing some issues, topics, cause of problems, how to keep a relationship, how to reduce jealousy, seeing beneath one's beauty and more.


INTRODUCTION
The counsellor contains words that can work wonders in your everyday life. The world today is filled with sin, lies, theft, deceits, pains, heart breaks and much more. We find ourselves surrounded by these factors most times when we fail to read the signs. You might ask what are these signs and how do I get to know them. Those little moments we fail to notice or even pay careful attention to, shows the signs, every relationship should have trust but these generation prefer lust and fun instead. Just like the saying "living young wild and free".

"It is a stupid idea to waste valuable time needed for important activities and life changing actions"

You get to reminisce sometimes about the silly things you did, how you wish time could go back for you to change and correct your mistakes. But these mistakes are to teach you and make you a better person.

"It is never too late! To learn and stop doing what you know ain't right".

Talk is really cheap, don't feel bad or bothered when people talk about you. When they do so, it simply means you are ahead of them, you are important and you are someone worth talking about.
"Every divorce, is as a result of un forgiveness! Talk is cheap and only hearers alone part take in such"
Over 75% of first marriages last, Over 85% of second marriages fail.


Take a careful look at yourself and calm all the rushing moments in your life. Never be in a hurry to act, always listen and decide within you before carrying out actions. It is better to leave a faulty relationship that refuses care and love before marriage, than to spend the rest of your life in regrets and sorrow. Remember money is not everything, you should not let it control you. Learn from others, their past experience, read about real happenings and grow better than the former you.


I hope you pick something from this piece, and with understanding seek more. You can stop that motion before it gets worse.
I am open for talks, anytime, just drop your comments or if you have something to address, a story to share or past experience. Please send an email to us @.. counselme21@gmail.com